HOW TO GET MARRIED AND STILL NOT GET A DIVORCE

What I am about to say is not far from the truth. It has been publicized that the cherished union between Paul Okoye of the defunct Psquare with Anita Okoye has clashed. It is not something to celebrate. So, I am treating this issue with utmost care! 

Citing Rudeboy's marriage here does not make it a universal standard for the marriage institution but doing so might help us to shed more lights on this as it seems to be the current issue on ground. Being a global sensation, it is not surprising that the information is wide spreading. 

The following are some of the ways to get married and still not get divorce. It is based on suggestions though and not primarily an instruction or command: 

1. Hear from God

At times when marriages clash, people would begin to wonder if those involved in the said marriage were actually meant for each other. It is said that God is not the Author of confusions. So, building and destroying at the same time might not be His pattern of acting. Forget about the Pastor, Prophet or Priest things, if you are a Christian then there are times that you might need to hear from God by yourself and that can only be achieved through the constant study of the Word of God, meditating on the Word and drawing closer to Him. It is good to draw closer to Men of God who truly are called but I have not seen where the Priest, Pastor or Prophet does the actual choosing of a life partner for a person though they may endorse or investigate it. You have to go for who your soul solely chooses and with the help of God, you can know that one person. 

2. Watch your tongue

What we say actually comes back to us in unexpected ways. I am not trying to draw up inferences here but if you are single, it is better to choose your words carefully when speaking in public places because you don't know who is listening and even when no one is, be careful because words have the ability of sticking around only to manifest in the future. I would that you should speak wholesome words everywhere whether you are married, single or searching. 

3. Watch your back

Nnah ee, it seems to me that the law of nature has it that motion must be involved. It is either you are chasing something or that something is chasing you. At times, I begin to wonder if there is any place of rest in this world and if there is, I don't think that I have been able to find it. Do everything within your reach to keep your home unbroken ! It doesn't matter where the leakage is coming from but if the factors causing a particular propblem are discovered on time then solving such problems would just be a matter of time. 

Even HIV is curable if the symptoms are discovered on time or at most, manageable. 

Do not let your problems to get to an incurable stage before you can act but as much as it is possible, settle all cases without violence.